The Unshakeable Road
to Love (Value Centered Relationships) is based upon Eternal Principles from
all world scriptures, including Zen. These tried-and-true Eternal Principles,
the Pillars of Love, show how to build foundations for relationships where
happiness and well-being are inevitable. And where pain and conflict can
dissolve on the spot. A radically different approach to love and psychology,
the book offers a completely new perspective on fulfillment and what is truly
needed to thrive. For example, one of the Pillars of Love upon which the book
is based is: To Be Happy, You Do Not Have to Be Loved, You Have to Learn What
It Means to Be Loving.
The book explores the
difference between Real and Counterfeit Love. We discover how all suffering in
relationships is due to being caught in the trap of Counterfeit Love. And how
easy it is to break free from bondage and leave that trap behind. This is a
book of practice, filled with Turning Points, Pillars of Love, Interventions,
and many enjoyable exercises so the reader can practice these principles in all
their relationships and in their everyday lives. Written by a psychologist,
Interfaith Counselor, and long-term Zen practitioner, the book combines the
practices and principles of both East and West, helping us to discover and
celebrate the best in ourselves and others. Purchase a copy of The Unshakeable Road to Love on Amazon or Barnes and Noble.
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THE SIMPLE LAWS OF LOVE
There are simple laws of love, which are infallible.
Like the laws of gravity these laws cannot fail. They are natural, enjoyable,
and easy to follow. These laws dissolve
upset and confusion and bring everything back on track. If you are confused or
upset in your relationship, just turn to one of these laws. See what you may be
doing in opposition to them. Even if we’re not aware of it, when we live in
opposition to these laws, backlash is inevitable, one way off the next. If we
jump off a building and ignore gravity, no matter how good our intentions are,
we cannot help but be hurt. The same is true of the law of love. It is a pillar
of strength to hold onto, to keep us happy, safe, and well. And to cause our
relationships to flourish. If you’re having trouble in your relationship, or living
in opposition to one of these laws, it’s an easy matter to make a correction.
Just realign yourself. Review the law of
love pertaining to your problem. Digest the law, make friends with it, make it
the basis of your actions. It is inevitable then that harmony and newfound
clarity will prevail. We’ll go over a few of the basic laws here. There are
many others waiting. The more you include these laws in your day, the more
delighted you will be. Try it and see.
1)
There
is never a lack of love. Love is available every moment, everywhere. When there
seems to be a lack of love, it is only that you are keeping it away.
This is a beautiful law. Stop and realize you need never
be lonely. There is so much love waiting all around you. And it’s also possible
to keep it away. Our hearts may be closed. We may be fearful, angry, lost in
the past. Or we may see the worst in everyone. Take a few minutes to dwell upon
this. Are you attracting love, welcoming it? Are you seeing the value in
everyone? Or are you filled with resentment and blame?
- Love is a choice. Choose to let
love into your life.
If so, turn
that around. Give up the blame, open to the beauty and uniqueness of everyone
you meet. Love is a choice. Choose to let love into your life.
- Perception is fatal. As you
perceive, so shall you live. Are you a love finder or fault finder?
This law of love is powerful. Choose to see
through the eyes of love. When people say there is something wrong with
everyone they meet, it is simply because that is the way They are perceiving
others. They are looking for what’s wrong. And inevitably, they will then see
what is wrong in themselves, as well. When we start looking for what is
valuable in others, beauty, warmth, kindness and love are a natural outcome.
Not only towards others, but towards yourself as well.
Brenda Shoshanna offers talks and workshops based upon The Simple Laws of Love. Contact her at topspeaker@yahoo.com. www.totalrelationshipsnow.com, www.brendashoshanna.com
About the Author
Brenda Shoshanna is
an award-winning author, psychologist, Interfaith counselor, and long-term Zen
practitioner and speaker. Her work is dedicated to integrating the teachings of
East and West and making them real in our everyday lives. Brenda has offered
over five hundred talks and workshops on all aspects of personal and spiritual
development, relationships, and living an authentic, meaningful life.
You can find her
online at:
Author Website: http://www.brendashoshanna.com
Book Website: https://www.totalrelationshipsnow.com/
Her Plays: https://www.allmyplays.com/
Her Podcast: https://www.zenwisdomtoday.com/
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