Motherhood
is a symphony, from the first movement, through crescendo after crescendo, to
the finale. Hildy Halverson, a genius in math and science, is pushed by her
parents to step into a male-dominated field and change the world for women. But
Hildy, enamored of the scientific force of the human body, and her own body’s
ability to create and sustain life, decides to go against contemporary
expectations. She marries young and raises a houseful of kids. Hildy wants her
children to choose their own life paths. As each child is born, she tells them,
“You can be whatever you want to be, and whatever you want to be will be
great.” Despite her efforts to not influence her children, Hildy does so, often
in unexpected ways. Each child is introduced in that first private moment
between Hildy and her new baby. This is followed by a chapter revealing that
child’s life, years later. Woven throughout is an underlying grief over the
death of the sixth baby soon after birth. That grief is more pervasive than any
of them expect. In this ambitious novel, the struggles and joys, fatigue and
exhilaration of motherhood, are captured in the full panorama of family life.
Hildy lovingly raises her children, then lets them go, finding herself along
the way.
THE BUSINESS OF WRITING
Just last night, I attended a special event in the Milwaukee area called China Lights. Held outdoors in a park devoted to beautiful flower gardens, there were amazing and intricate lit fabric-based figures, all from Chinese artists. One display showed the Chinese zodiac characters. I saw that I was born in the year of the rat. I wasn’t too happy with that, until I saw the list of possible vocations. Writer, it listed first. And then, Sales. Well, that’s it in a nutshell, isn’t it. The business of writing means you also have to be able to sell yourself and your work. And, if I have to be a rat to do what I love so much, then so be it! In the last 14 years, I’ve written and sold 15 books – 8 novels, 2 short story collections, 4 poetry collections, and 1 collection of essays. All of the books are with traditional presses. I’ve also had hundreds of short stories, essays, and poems appear in magazine and anthologies. So clearly, I’ve found the time to write…and to get what I write out into the world. It can be done. You can sink your teeth into the business of writing – but still have plenty of time for the artful, creative side of things.
As creatives, we are used to our work being with words, and with time spent on making those words just right. We want to say things, say them well, and say them in a new and lovely way. But then, after our creative work is done and polished to a high shine, we have to remove our writer hats and put on our business hats. This is not an easy thing to do, and many writers find it very uncomfortable. While in the process of sending your work out into the world, you have to take the time to research the markets and find appropriate places that are looking for what you do. This is tedious and much less fun than the writing itself. So for many writers, this is where it stops – the finished product goes into a file cabinet, and the writer is off on another adventure.
But here’s the trick. Do your marketing just one day a week. Just one day! If you finish something new, or if something you’ve already submitted gets rejected, don’t run immediately to the marketing sites and get it back out. Pick one day per week to do it all. Do you have one day a week where your creative energy runs a little low? That’s the day to choose. Also pad that one day with rewards. Do you love going to coffee shops? Then pack up your laptop, go to your favorite coffee place, order your favorite drink, sit in your favorite spot, and sip while you figure out where to send your stuff. Maybe buy a cookie or a muffin! But only if you open your laptop and start submitting. Doing marketing on one day a week means that you still have all the other days for your creative work. And…on a week when there are no rejections, you get a bonus day of writing! But still give yourself that latte and muffin!
Now as your career grows, keep
following this one day a week. Once you have books out, you will be wanting to
get out to bookstores, book festivals, writers conferences, and the like to
sell your book. These days, publishers expect writers to be very involved in
getting the word out about their books. We no longer just sit back and wait for
the publisher to tell us where to go and what to do. So it’s absolutely
essential that you become proactive.
But when you think about the business aspect of writing, take a deep breath. You got into writing because you love the creative life, you have imagination, and you want to be writing. The good news is that the business part of writing does not have to overtake you. You can control how much each week you work on selling your poems, stories, essays, memoir, and books. And you can control how much each week you work on getting your book out into the public world. If you choose one day – and stick with it – it will keep the business of writing from feeling like it’s taking over your world and your creative life. When you put it down to one day, your focus is fully on it, and you will be amazed how much you can accomplish...and then return to the fun stuff.
About the
Author
Kathie Giorgio is the
author of a total of fifteen books: eight novels, two story collections, an
essay collection, and four poetry collections. She’s been nominated for the
Pushcart Prize in fiction and poetry and awarded the Outstanding Achievement
Award from the Wisconsin Library Association, the Silver Pen Award for Literary
Excellence, the Pencraft Award for Literary Excellence, and the Eric Hoffer
Award In Fiction. Her poem “Light” won runner-up in the 2021 Rosebud Magazine
Poetry Prize, and her work has also been incorporated into many visual art and
musical events. Kathie is the director
and founder of AllWriters’ Workplace & Workshop LLC, an international
creative writing studio. She lives with her husband, mystery writer Michael
Giorgio, and their daughter Olivia, in Waukesha, Wisconsin. Three of her adult
children, Christopher, Andy, and Olivia, live close by, along with her solo
granddaughter, Maya Mae. One adult child has wandered off to Louisiana and
lives among the mathematicians and alligators.
You can follow the author
at:
Website: http://www.kathiegiorgio.org
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kathiegiorgioauthor/
X/Twitter: @KathieGiorgio
Instagram: @kathiegio1
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